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Enter the boy band. Or any other male prototype of a young, not sexually threatening, highly popular object of affection. This icon can serve many important psychological functions for the tween girl. She may develop romantic feelings directed toward him, but because he has the image of purity and gentleness, she does not need to imagine the pressure of assertive sexual advances she is not ready for. He sings about unconditional love and acceptance, devotion, and romance. To the insecure tween girl who frets about her appearance, this is music to her ears. And as one of the most popular people on the planet, his acceptance translates to the highest sense of her own self worth.

Thought-provoking article. So, can/when does a celebrity crush go too far and set unrealistic expectations for teen girls? And how can adults mentor youth into adulthood?

Why Girls Get Bieber Fever: Hollywood, Are You Listening? | Psychology Today